Do you have any advice?

i was born with cerebal palsy and have been living with it for 28 years. it affects my left arm and both my legs. i walk with a little more than a limp but refuse to go on a wheel chair for now. i get around. i am a confident spastic to society. i am in my point of life where i would like to find a long term relationship and perhaps start a family. i am independant and work for myself. i value intelligence in women, everything else is a bonus. i have tried libraries, church, cafe, friends homes and meet girls who offer attention, conversation, phone numbers, email address but i'm having it hard to go any further. i feel i am getting old faster than before.